Stay Engaged (PBTR Part 10) – ETB #124
Ever have that desire to jump into the car for a very long drive... ALONE? Or feel the need to take a long walk by yourself rather than deal with another teenage drama or toddler meltdown? As a mom of 5, I know the feeling. But, you can't quit. Take a break, but...
Squash the Fear (PBTR Part 9) – ETB #123
We have been gripped by fear for the last several years. The pandemic and waves of uncertainty hit us on top of the more common day-to-day fears. But, God says there's no place for fear in our lives! He tells us not to fear because He is with us (Isaiah 41:10). Do you...
The Power of Words (PBTR Part 8) – ETB #122
How many times have you said something and then wished you hadn't said those words? Have you reacted to something your child did without thinking, and in the process, you snapped at them? The power of your words can be a tool or a weapon. This is the eighth episode in...
How to Listen to Your Child (PBTR Part 7) – ETB #121
I've worked with kids from little ones to college kids for over 30 years. The number one complaint I hear from parents is: "My kids don't talk to me!" On the other side, the number one complaint I hear from kids is: "My parents don't listen to me!" You want our kids...
How to Understand Your Child’s World (PBTR Part 6) – ETB #120
Have you ever felt like you're trying so hard but you're losing the battle to talk to your kids? First, I want to tell you that is a defeatist mindset and I invite you to change the way that you look at the situation. There are things you can do! Second, there are so...
Giving Your Kids Unconditional Love (PBTR Part 5) – ETB #119
When you have a baby, there is unimaginable joy. It's hard to understand how much a mom or dad loves their child. But, we have to be careful to not put conditions on that love as they grow older. There are hindrances that can pop up to giving your kids unconditional...
Foundation of Relationship (PBTR Part 4) – ETB #118
My father-in-law is an architect. Years ago, when my kids were little, I was in his office looking at the artwork on the walls. It was a collection of buildings that he had designed. One, in particular, caught my eye. It was a building designed on the side of a...
When the Picture Gets Blurry (PBTR Part 3) – ETB #117
Did you get a parenting manual when your child was handed to you? Sometimes, it feels like it would have been easier if we had been given a guide or some 3-step formula when they were born. Instead, you're searching the internet for quick tips and hacks to get you...
Your Child is a Masterpiece (PBTR Part 2) – ETB #116
The purpose when I started writing Parenting Beyond the Rules was to talk about the principles that we're trying to instill into our kids as we're raising them: Discipline, kindness, sharing, honesty, trustworthiness, etc. But, it is so easy to get confused and think...
The Importance of Parenting Beyond the Rules (PBTR Part 1) – ETB #115
I've made plenty of mistakes in my parenting journey. I didn't do it all right, and I don't have all the answers. If I were to go back and start this process all over again, I would just make different mistakes because imperfect parents can't parent perfectly. And...