A Moment That Stopped the Music.
The beat was thumping, the crowd was roaring, and Latin superstar Maluma was in his element. Then, without warning, the music stopped.
His attention was locked on a woman in the crowd, holding a baby without any ear protection.
“It’s your responsibility to take care of your baby,” he said into the mic. As a father himself, he explained he’d never bring his own children to a concert without protecting them.
That one moment sparked lots of conversation on the internet. Supporters praised his courage; critics said he was too harsh. But beneath the headlines is a critical question every parent should ask: How loud is too loud for a child’s ears — and what’s our role in protecting them?

A celebrity calling out a parent may grab attention, but this isn’t just a celebrity moment; it’s a safety moment. Children’s ears are delicate, and the damage from loud noise can happen far faster than most realize. And, many parents don’t think about this
The Hidden Dangers of Loud Events for Kids
Children’s auditory systems are still developing. Their smaller ear canals amplify sound more than an adult’s, meaning a noise that feels “loud but fine” to you can be damaging to them.
According to the World Health Organization, sounds above 85 decibels can cause permanent hearing damage, and most concerts hit between 100 and 120 dB. That’s like standing next to a chainsaw for hours.
And the risk isn’t just from hours of exposure. A single loud burst, a pyrotechnic blast, a sudden feedback squeal, or even the roar of a stadium crowd can cause irreversible damage in seconds.
Once you understand the science, the next question is obvious: How can we protect our kids without locking them away from life’s experiences?
Practical Ways to Protect Little Ears
The good news? Hearing loss from loud noise is almost entirely preventable. A few intentional steps can make all the difference:
- Use certified child earmuffs for infants and toddlers. Cotton balls or regular headphones won’t protect hearing.
- Choose your spot wisely — sit far from speakers or amplifiers.
- Monitor sound levels with a free phone decibel app.
- Pick family-friendly events where volume is moderated.
Sometimes, the best option is simply not going. That can be hard, maybe it’s your favorite band, or a once-in-a-lifetime event. But music will always be there. Your child’s hearing? You only get one chance to protect it.
Of course, knowing what to do is just part of the equation; the other part is having the right mindset as a parent.
Parent First, Fan Second
What made Maluma’s moment powerful was that he spoke as a father, not just a performer. He didn’t just see a concertgoer; he saw a parent making a risky choice for their child.
As parents, we’re often faced with moments where we have to choose between what we want to do and what’s best for our kids. That can mean saying “no” to an event or being the “overly cautious” one in the room. And while it might feel frustrating in the moment, those decisions are acts of love.
And when love guides the decision, it becomes easier to take the next step. We must make safety a family habit.
Making Hearing Safety a Habit
Talk to your kids early about why ear protection matters. Let them pick fun colors for earmuffs or make it part of your “event checklist” just like snacks and sunscreen.
When safety becomes part of your family culture, it’s no longer a fight; it’s just what you do. And the more consistently you do it, the more likely your kids are to protect their own hearing as they grow.
Because in the end, protecting your child’s hearing isn’t about saying “no” to fun, it’s about making sure they can enjoy every “I love you” for the rest of their lives.
Wrapping It Up: A Lifetime of Listening
The music fades, the lights dim, and the crowd goes home. But your child’s ears will carry every note, every word, and every sound into the rest of their life.
We can’t control the volume of the world, but we can control how we prepare our kids for it. The choice is ours: let them face the noise unprotected, or equip them to hear life’s sweetest sounds for decades to come.
When we know what’s at stake, we’re better prepared to make informed choices, even in the middle of life’s loudest moments.
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